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My name is Tie'sha Sadie, but
you may call me Tie. I am a
multi-disciplinary creative
currently raging and roaring
in the experience-o-sphere
that is New York.


Design. LGBTQI. Art. Magic.
Self-Care. Community. Soul.
Melanin. Philanthropy. Love.
Advocacy. Self-Care. Light.
Intimacy. Healing. Vision.
No Holds Barred.

Empty Sex: A Retrospect
8.2.12 at 20:02.


Let us begin with a definition:

 to fuck someone (a.k.a. engage in intercourse with another) devoid of any connection whether it be mental, spiritual, emotional, or simply a mutual vibe 
Where oh where to begin, Ok, if you are on the outside of a pair’s relationship then rest assured that you don’t know SHIT about what goes on between those two. You don’t know shit about what goes on when they are alone together and you definitely don’t know shit about what they mean to one another. Now, that we’ve gotten that out of the way, I don’t think that I need to go into detail about the whole “assuming makes an ass out of you” shabang. Got it? Goodie. 

Next up, promiscuous woman, swingers, and free spirits are not synonymous characteristics. Wait, let me throw in the word ‘slut’, while I’m at it. Those four “titles” may all be associated with sexual encounters, but that is basically all they have in common with one another. It is not my place to tell you which is which and who should be defined as what, my mission here is to speak for those who have been criticized, characterized, and judged based on titles not of their own choosing. 

In conclusion, your sex life is your own and nobody but you knows if you engage in empty sex. Additionally, if you do engage in empty sex (as defined above), ain’t shit wrong with that unless you think it is. Not everyone needs to be head over heels in love with someone before they bump pelvises….just like how you don’t have to wait for marriage before you give up the panties. 

I can’t deal with all the judgmental, ancient and HYPOCRITICAL nuisances within society. Who you sleep with and how often you do so, is a personal prerogative so why is it always the outsiders, who feel so obligated to critic other’s sexual encounters. 

To my significant sister who sparked this little rant, I am so proud of you for not succumbing to the bullshit. This one is for you, babylove.

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